Submission and Shyness

I want to share a brief commentary on something that’s been bugging me lately in writing about D/s relationships geared towards submissives.  I keep seeing a submissive empowerment message, which on its own is great, but I’ve also noticed a kind of hostility towards submissives who are naturally shy.  A few different people have said some variation on a theme of “go after what you want, because if you don’t, you’re boring and no one will ever want to scene with you.”

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